Baseball games with my father are events I vividly remember to this day, even as I head toward the start of my 4th decade of life - the two-game September '97 series against the Dodgers where Bonds hit a titanic 2-run homer into the upper deck in Candlestick, bringing 56,000+ Giant fans to their feet in unison to cheer for a team nobody gave any hope toward at season's start. My dad saw Brian Johnson follow-up Bonds' heroics the following day, hitting the game-winning home-run in the 11th to take the two-game set and tie the division going into the final two weeks of the campaign. Then there's my 10th birthday, when dad took me and seven friends to the Giants-Dodgers game and Darryl Strawberry of all players tossed a baseball to me during batting practice, following up this act later with an upper-deck home-run to right that still hasn't landed. Luckily, Kevin Bass hit a game-winning single in the 11th to win the game and send us kids home happy.
I've been to over 100 Giants games in my life, of which many required my father to leave work after a long day to drive us over Highway 17 to the 85 to the 280 before crossing the 380 to 101 because "you never know what 101 is going to be like." We had a lot of fun on those rides, talking baseball, school, life. Conversations with my dad that started with baseball were probably some of the best times I've had with him because it led to other great stories and harsh realities - about growing up in Fresno with nine brothers and sisters, the hardships of growing up with little money, the relationship and close bond he had with my Uncle Mark, his experiences working at the age of 14 to help put food on the table, and his unconditional love for his own parents. So when the option came up to drive to San Francisco and spend the World Series-clinching game 5 with friends or go home to watch with dad, I went home to watch the game with the old man. We talked about how shocking it was that of all Giants teams and all the great players that came and went, this group of all groups pulled off the victory. But it was more special because we got to see them win together, share the moment together, and reminisce a little about the great players who never won and the cold, windy nights we shared watching the likes of Clark, Williams, Bonds, Kent, and others at the 'Stick. Nobody can forget those cold, windy nights, and a repeat won't either.